NOT GETTING EASIER!

Well, it's week three of Owen being in daycare if you count the "phase in week" and things are still pretty much the same. Today I drop him off and Ms. Ester says "it's amazing for a little guy who doesn't speak he really understands things" of course I said what do you mean he doesn't speak???? Apparently in the three weeks that Owen has been there he hasn't said much if anything at all and yesterday was the first day he actually smiled at her. Now, this upsets me because when I call during the day they tell me he is fine, having fun, playing, napping, etc. They never mentioned that my son isn't saying anything or smiling!!! I understand that he doesn't speak in sentences and what he does say is often not clear however, but he does say hi, bye, out, mama, luv you. I asked her if he was saying any of these words and she said no. I explained to her that this is not my kid, at home you can't stop him for talking and he's laughing and dancing all the time. Shouldn't someone have mentioned this to me?

I am very upset about this, the only thing that was making this o.k. for now was that I thought that once I left and he stopped crying (this is what they tell me) that he was having fun with the other kids, playing, making crafts and laughing. Now I find out that he is not saying anything, he isn't laughing and plays by himself most of the day! How much worse can this get. I am so upset. When I got to work I called our agencies post adoption services and left a message for the director asking her to call me and see if there is anything I should be doing for him.

Does anyone have any suggestions?? Should I be doing something for him?? I am very worried about my little guy.